Have you ever felt like something inside of you is trying to shout out that it’s time to stop playing small and be ready to change your life?

Transformation can feel super scary yet thrilling at the same time.

Sure! It takes some courage to get out of your comfort zone. But it’s also inspiring to discover what your next stage of life looks like.

Still wondering whether you should transform into a better version of yourself or stay stuck in the same place forever?

These 6 signs will show you that this is the perfect time to change your life for the better!

You can’t take that stuck feeling anymore. 

If you wake up wishing you could stay in bed for a little longer because you’re not ready to face the day, this is a sign that you’re desperate for a transformation.

You’re unhappy with your everyday routine. The daily stability with unfulfilled dreams have you bored out of your mind and drained of energy. You don’t get a chance to do, see or hear anything different.

I know how painful it is because I’ve been there.

Before starting my blogging journey, I had no idea what to do with my future. I stayed in the exact same phase for over a year going through the same activities over and over again.

That stuck feeling made me wonder whether I had enough courage and energy to break free and live without boundaries.

So, if you’re waking up dreading the day and not seeing the beauty of life, it’s a huge alarm that you need to change your life as soon as possible.

You recognize and accept where you are.

You can’t fix a weakness into a strength if you’re busy rejecting its existence. 

So, once you begin to see patterns in your behavior and reflect on your own strengths and weaknesses, you have raised your awareness to a very high level.

Instead of avoiding, you now choose to face your failure and flaw. It is all because you’ve believed wholeheartedly that working on improving yourself is the best way to move forward.

You get clear visions of the life you desire to own.

You’re thinking about the end of the tunnel: who you wish to become, what you want to achieve, and what you want your day to look like.

These vivid visions keep appearing inside your mind that cause you to feel nervous yet excited all at the same time.

They are no longer just some random thoughts. Somehow, you know deep inside your heart that you are ready to take the next step and bring them to life.

One vision I have been having lately has been me starting my day by soaking up to the sunshine on a beach. With a pretty glass of orange juice in one hand, I’m sitting there checking emails from clients saying how much they love my new self-growth program.

No more waking up early rushing to work. No more doing things that are not aligned with my energy. And I’m absolutely loving this life.

When these visions become clear, every time I look into my own heart, I know for sure that I’ve found my spark, and it’s the right time to go for it.

You’re curious about new experiences in life.

Curiosity is one thing that keeps driving me to step into my next-level self and move forward with confidence.

Some simple signs for this are:

  • You start meeting new friends.
  • You are searching for new hobbies and habits.
  • You keep reading or listening to many success stories of others.
  • You feel uplifted and motivated with each lesson learned along the way.

You see the values when it comes to exploring more and more with your curious mind. More than just seeing or hearing, you want to truly learn, feel, and experience new ideas with all your heart and soul.

You are not afraid to walk away from toxic relationships and situations.


Whenever you stop giving in to anything that does not serve you or bring you joy (including relationships), the time to make a change is finally here.

Why is it easier than ever to walk away from toxic people or situations in this stage of life? It’s because you finally realize that your happiness is so much more important.

As you know your worth and love yourself enough to let go of things that may be mentally harmful, you will eventually make the best decisions for yourself.

You keep seeing signs… from the Universe (shhh!)

It doesn’t make sense for those who are still doubting manifestation. I know, I know! But trust me on this, ok?

The moment I decided to change my mindset about money (because of all the stress in managing my credit card debt), I started to notice repeating numbers like 111, 222, or 333 over and over again.

They just seemed to pop right out at me and followed me everywhere.

And I was like, “Am I going crazy! Why did all the license plates/ hours on the iPhone seem to be sending me a message?”

That’s the time where I decided to give them meaning.

I convinced myself that the Universe was showing me how ready I was to shift my money beliefs.

Or maybe one part of me actively sought out signs and messages from the outer world because I wanted to be reassured that I was on the right track.

So, the next time you start to meet people, read stories or see symbols that link to your vision, it’s a sign (whether from the Universe or from your inner voice. You decide!) *wink*

Before You Go

Can I tell you a single truth?

If you’re sitting here reading this blog post, I bet one part of you has already been looking for a transformation.

Maybe you’re just confused and in need of a little push to get over the fear of change. You feel uncertain because you have no idea what is waiting ahead.

My only advice is:

Listen to your heart, clue into what’s happening, and then follow your intuition.

You don’t have to know all the answers to make that move. Enjoy the fact that you finally chose to change your life for the better.

“You only need to know the direction, not the destination. The direction is enough to make the next choice.” – James Clear


Rosalie Huang is a personal development blogger who empowers motivating young women to create their freedom lifestyle by unlocking their inner power and confidently showing up online. Cozy Night In is a place where she provides inspiration and action tips that promise to enrich your impact and take you to your next-level self.